Add security flags to libarchive extraction to prevent path traversal
(Zip Slip) and absolute path attacks:
- ARCHIVE_EXTRACT_SECURE_NODOTDOT: Block ".." path components
- ARCHIVE_EXTRACT_SECURE_NOABSOLUTEPATHS: Block absolute paths
- ARCHIVE_EXTRACT_SECURE_SYMLINKS: Block symlinks escaping extract dir
This hardens both `cmake -E tar` and `file(ARCHIVE_EXTRACT)` against
malicious archives that attempt to write files outside the intended
extraction directory.