Rely on OpenSSL's builtin DH parameters for TLS 1.2 and earlier instead
of providing a default SSLContext#tmp_dh_callback proc.
SSL_CTX_set_dh_auto() has been available since OpenSSL 1.1.0.
The parameters can still be overridden by specifying
SSLContext#tmp_dh_callback or #tmp_dh, as confirmed by existing tests.
SSLContext#tmp_dh_callback depends on a deprecated OpenSSL feature. We
also prefer not to hard-code parameters, which is a maintenance burden.
This change also improves Ractor compatibility by removing the
unshareable proc.
https://github.com/ruby/openssl/commit/9cfec9bf5e